What this might look like: Discuss with your family and/or friends what Christlike attributes are, and identify those attributes in others. Read your ancestors' patriarchal blessings and see where you fit in their stories. Engage individually with your family members in a positive way, have family prayer and a family prayer list, have family home evenings, do Come Follow Me at home, etc. Remember that you like each other.

What this might look like: Attend the temple more, go to a temple open house, look at temple art, walk on the temple grounds, sit in the Celestial Room or temple parking lot and ponder and pray.  Renew your temple recommend, attend a temple prep class, participate in a family research activity, engage in family history by preparing names for the temple, etc. Create patterns of righteousness and be prepared to meet resistance.  Don't give up.  You got this!